Nick has thrown a complete uproar about not being invited to my bachelorette or bridal shower. Fast forward to my graduation. They literally could have killed him. Slashing tyres was a serious attack on his property (and incurred an unnecessary expense) and hiding his inhaler was playing russian roulette with his actual life. YTA to let these pranks happen to him for way to long, Lol how was she letting the pranks happen? Youre NTA but you will be if you force your future husband to be around them. The reality is that your fianc and how he feels is more important to you and none of the relatives care about either of the two of you. Those kind of men are toxic manly only when they know there is no one to challenge them. Next time they try to manipulate you into downplaying their behavior by holding their respect for Tim at ransom, tell them they will lose your respect and see how much they care about it, my guess is they won't. Yeah, it can range in severity. My dad said that he didnt know if he would be able to attend because I have not put the past behind us. He was probably trying really hard to put up with this behavior because he loves her so much. You know what that shit is? Your wedding is about your fianc and you, it doesnt matter if your male relatives miss out if they are causing harm to the person the event is suppose to be celebrating. Your family are not pranksters but criminals. Your only punishment is not coming to the wedding? That fucking crosses a line. This is awful behaviour. There's a difference between pranks and harassment. Asthma is scary as hell! The fact youre questioning if youre the asshole in this scenario is concerning. So funny! Get away from these people and their toxic masculinity. Cut ties with everyone, save your poor poor fiance more pain then the abuse he already went trough for you, and apologize to him in behalf of your family. NTA. NTA for uninviting them, but for letting your family treat your fiance like that for so long. NTA you family sounds exhausting. All these grownass dudes doing this just cannot see they're actually showing everyone how stupid they'd rather be. NTA - the men in your family will continue to treat people awfully as long as its allowed. That wasn't just a harmless prank, they were literally endangering the life of your fiance. You need to do more than not invite them from the wedding. Almost 4 years later and I still wish I didn't. I personally have no qualms with cutting people out of my life if they're cruel or indulge cruelty. You need to stick up for your husband and cut contact with these abusive freaks. Your family is awful and you just went along with it! This is the man you are going to marry. Oh Im sure they wanted to know about whether he would enforce gender inequality and support the patriarchy. . Your father is an especial AH as he is too old for this complete rubbish and should be a sensible moderating influence on the younger family members. What are they going to do to test manliness? Get away from your family, theyre even bigger assholes. This is abuse. That was about two years ago, fast forward to now. Because frankly, If I was your fianc, stealing the inhaler would have been my breaking point and I would have called off the wedding completely. Some of this is actually really dangerous. He needs that to live! I hope that they see the error of their ways and apologized to Tim but until then, I guess you might have to go no contact. ETA: The contact would have ceased after the slashed tires for me. They maybe expected him to go buy tires and change them by himself instead of getting help or the car taken to a place that fixes these problems? I have asthma and reading that gave me chills. Who do they think they are? Your wedding day will be one big joke to them. If you give in, now or ever, you will be the AH and you will get your fianc killed. NTA depending on how severe his asthma is then no inhaler = death. NTA she was totally unconsiderate to you. They should deal with the consequences. Personally I would go no contact with dad and let him lay in the bed he made. NTA. Eeesh. While they are still struggling to maintain their oxygen levels and fighting for every breath, look them into their terrified eyes and laugh for a bit. Please dont cave, your fianc deserves to have that bullshit stay far away from him. I'd like to see uncle and the other assholes breathe through a straw for a few hours, whith their nose properly plugged. is that the right term? Jump off that ledge! Cousin asked if "little timmy ran to me to tattle". It's theft. Based on how they are described I highly doubt theres would be the type of people to actually confess to hiding his inhaler if he died before he found out and told OP. I hope she doesnt cut off the family for him, but for herself. This is not normal behavior. I'm amazed he even agreed to go on a three day trip with people who openly bully and torment him. Would it still be as funny if they were arrested for manslaughter. He'd still be here if his thinking wouldn't have been "I'm not going to the doctor, they just find things wrong with you." Family or not I'd be pressing charges. Your family has driven the wedge, not Tim. NTA. NTA. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. What awful people. Toxic masculinity ruins the party again. Absolutely none of this is "good natured fun". NTA OP. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. They can feel like real men now. Congrats on your wedding and good luck! NTA. NTA, that's not typical "men stuff", your dad, uncle, brother and cousin are bullies. What the fuck is wrong with these people? This doesnt sound like pranking but more like bullying. NTA! OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: i am thinking about uninviting my sister from my mothers birthday dinner because she abruptly left me to go to the concert with someone else. Tires aren't free. You're actually still nice in my opinion and your family members are AHs, including your mum to be honest! Also if she had to beg and beg for you to go with her she may have assumed you didn't want to come and she was relieving you of a burden when she cancelled. This was DANGEROUS. Youre supposed to protect him just like he is you, even if that means from your family. Those men are beyond toxic. Tell them they need to apologize and gain respect in your eyes .. Tell them that their insecurities about how manly they are is showing loud and clear to everyone. It absolutely doesn't ruin any joke I've ever come across to use a /s. "Access" is all well and good until you wind up at an out-of-network emergency room. You dont need to worry about protecting the feelings of your bullies. I would contact to acquire an admission of guilt and then take them to court. Your question shouldn't be about uninviting your asshole family, it should be They could have killed him by hiding his inhaler. Who carrys 4 plug kits? Graduation day is about you, your hard work and all you've accomplished. You are strong. No, they had to literally endanger his life and/or health before you took this seriously. If you give in, they'll keep thinking that their bullying is acceptable or funny. Pranks aren't supposed to cost the person being pranked money. NTA a prank is a Whoopie Cushion not slashing tires. NTA. Poor Tim. Not to mention dangerous. The next step would be giving him flowers that set off his asthma. Only ones he were allowed to see where my grandparents. What theyre doing arent pranks your fianc doesnt have to prove ANYTHING to your family. I suggest you tell them that you understand that they're intimidated by someone with a real education and who idea of fun isn't dumb jock humour but that you move beyond such immature behaviour and they're out of your life altogether until they apologise to TIM and if they ever "prank" him again they out for ever. OP better step up her game. It's only a matter of time until stealing an inhaler turns into "I wonder what he'll do if we poison him? NTA. Youre asking the wrong question. NTA this is toxic masculinity and honestly who tf hides an inhaler from an asthmatic?! I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Basically is he a good person and are you happy in the relationship. What would they have done then? Or to respect that, for that matter. Obviously Tim went on that camping trip with them for you, he clearly does not like these people. Her family, her responsibilty. Live your life, be Happy, graduate, write on reddit, do whathever you want with YOUR Life. This mans gonna die. I am assuming your fiance has been putting up with this out of respect for you and your family. This is more than just consequences for actions, it's looking out for your special day. NTA they gone far beyond pranks are just bullying him now. That's alright up bullying. NTA for uninviting them to the wedding but you are huge AH for not shutting their antics down sooner and continuing to subject Tim to these bullies. So if Tim had dropped dead at their feet, would they have congratulated him for passing the test? So I 28f am getting married to the love of my life. You are absolutely correct, there is a big difference between prancing and bullying, and OPs family is on the wrong side of that gap. Knowledge and wisdom are threatening to people with small minds. Which would your husband prefer, an hour at the doctor or a lifetime in adult diapers? In the post titled "AITA for uninviting my cousin, brother, uncle and dad to my wedding over a prank?"?" Because if she has an asthma attack and is more than 3 feet from one, she will die. For more information, please see our But say they are just pranking him. Id tell them since they suck so much at life they can sit at the house and play pranks on one another and if mommy wants to get involved, she can sit her ass at the house with them as well. I feel like the AH because I overreacted and probably couldve compromised for a day. Your family members sound horrible, I'm so sorry you have to deal with them. Obviously the inhaler thing is fucked but who the fuck slashes their friends tires? OP has been shown who values her and her happiness, and who sees her as worth less than momentary uncomfort. Your family sounds toxic as fuck. You dont mess with someones health. You're not exaggerating. None of these are harmless. # redditAITA #redditgermaphobe #entitledpeople 0:00 Intro 0:40 Story 1 Learning good boundaries and keeping them is key. But if you only slash 3 tires you have to pay out of pocket. It's not funny and it never will be. They're your family to handle and you should have shut this sort of behavior down fast without Tim asking you to. "I'm getting married, I want my kids there, as well as my nieces/nephews, and a handful of other kids from both families.". NTA. OP, these arent pranks. Hell, you might be the asshole if you don't press charges. Maybe consider a destination wedding? Lets swap his face wash with acid to see if his skin is strong like a real man! Edit: fixed a typo saying tall instead of talk. Thats just too much and a huge wtf. Even if you dont, I think I would be pretty furious at him for being so selfish he would rather potentially die and leave me and our possible kids without a husband and father because hes too afraid to go to a doctor to find out if he has a condition thats actually treatable with simple medicine! She still goes all out. The last question is to judge whether you will have latent feelings of guilt should you not attempt to reconcile with your dad, and then not have the opportunity later to do so. Any children you have could possibly be in danger from them, too. Even bullying seems like too light of a word. They're just AH and none of what they're doing is pranking, IMHO they're intimidated by someone that is more educated then their dumb asses. This should have been stopped way before it got that far. Mom needs to be told to butt out or shes next to be banned. Sounds like your cousin might have been going along with the crowd and knows it went too far. If I am being 100% honest with you, if I my in-laws had treated me the way your family have treated your partner, I would not have married him. Time to go no contact / extremely low contact. OP, this already is a wedge. My dads girlfriend at the time started getting more and more demanding. So the cops and court system is the way to go here. probably just some well deserved peace and quiet. Also, asthma attacks can be deadly. I, 22f, and my dad have had a tumultuous relationship for the last 5 years. Your fianc deserves your support and protection from your asshoke family members. NTA. Dont let any of those family members ruin an extremely special day between you and Tim. NTA they took the pranks way too far. Yessss!! Also expect your mom might say she isn't going if they don't. OP is NTA for what she is asking about, but how on earth was the tire stunt not the line drawn in the sand? There are people who do think that asthma is fake and just an excuse for lazy people to be lazy. NTA. This is not pranking, it's abuse. Aita for uninviting my parents to my wedding; quad cortex neural dsp price; the forest fly command; python flush output; salvage car auction virginia; the book of psalms explained pdf; heineken hoodie; steel pipes suppliers in uae. I have mild asthma and have never needed a hospital (its either exercise induced, or triggered by my having a cold or something and my immune system deciding that while its doing inflammation anyway why not go into bronchitis for 2 months?). Glad you're moving on. What about your future child if you have a boy? Nta for revoking their invites. Clearly they were being awful to the fiance prior to the inhaler 'prank'. Theyve done damage to private property and have threatened the life of your fianc. You need to distance your family from you and Tim or you might live to regret it. NTA. This relationship is toxic for your fianc. if all four tires are slashed you can call insurance to cover it as an attack. If i were Tim, Id be very wary about marrying into your family. The way he calls you failure is super not okay You do what is right for you and go ahead and uninivite him. These aren't pranks, these are attacks. OP is young and probably still having to learn to navigate this issue. I cant believe that Tims family would want to see them or your mom at the wedding. I really hope they paid for the damage when they slashed his tyres. No fun indeed. Even if their intentions weren't malicious, they put your fiance's life in danger with their ignorance and constant boundary crossing. Tires are expensive where Im from, so that would be an expensive prank for the victim. If your mother had no input in this I'd have gone with E-S-H instead. He had healthcare. Who wants to be with someone who doesn't support them or back them up? ". . An inhaler is used for a life saving breathing issue. I am not jealous of any person forced to choose between their brothers and a parent. Who wins out of this? Like men! The man you want to marry has been shamed, had his property vandalized, been made uncomfortable, and his health, possibly life, endangered. Ain't they laughing? OP has recognized that her family is toxic in comparison to the 'norm', and she's actually putting her foot down and starting to set serious boundaries BEFORE marrying her SO. anyway, its my mums birthday next week and i was going to take the family out for dinner at a nice restaurant. Those guys are assholes. Keep giving your family a wedgie. Growing up i was a daddy's girl, I was his password, wallpaper and profile picture child. Stuck to your guns, your poor finance has been through more than enough and must really love you to have tolerated this bullshit. These pranks are blatant disrespect for OPs fianc and OP herself. Also tell your mom you didn't ruin the relationship, they did with their attitude and nobody else gets a say, your decision is final and they have to be "man enough" to accept the consequence of their childish actions. (unsaid: Sir, if it was in the wrong spot, we wouldn't know that, or we wouldn't have put it there now, would we?). They are cruel and bordering on criminal behavior. This is straight up hazing. You are also TA for condoning their behavior up to this point. I'm so sorry your family did this. This is insecure assholes being assholes because they feel intimidated by OP marrying a guy that is likely more successful. Hey OP, your family sucks big time. I even got ignored by her extended family for a year because, when visiting their trailer for a weekend, I waited for instruction instead of just "jumping in and doing it" when they were rebuilding docks, something I'd never experienced before. What an ungrateful bitch. NTA Id be looking into filing a police report, and maybe someone in a position of manly authority can have a chat with dad about destruction of property and theft of medical devices. Stop trying to make him love you. Why isnt this the top comment? Risking death because your family is shit just isnt worth it in the long run. No amount of masculine hobbies excuses that. They could have killed him. Exactly. Ask your dad if he's run to mummy to tattle? Nta. AUTOMOD Thanks for posting! Now imagine your family pranking your new husband yet again on what should be a day celebrating the two of you. Thats not pranking. Thats lets see how much abuse we get away with with the new guy so we can keep having fun being worthless bullies.. Don't just uninvite these people from your wedding; uninvite them from your and your fianc's lives. Slashing tires and taking an asthmatics inhaler is not typical. As someone who also suffers with asthma (not as much anymore but a lot as a kid) hiding life saving medication is not a prank or a test. Tim is your family, and family stands up for each other and help them with a tire change, not slash them. "Like real men. They never should have been in a position to keep going. im 90 down for no reason. Congrats on your wedding and good luck! Yeah driving 7 hours without an inhaler could have gotten him, someone else, or both killed if he passed out behind the wheel. Cut those degenerates out of your life! It's past time for you to stand up for yourself and him. And wanted to see if he was "man" enough to go through it without his inhaler, this is so toxic. This is the reason to establish care with a trusted GP so that if somethjng goes wrong you aren't in that situation. Today the victim is your fiance. Responding to the Redditor's decision to uninvite his mother and sister from his wedding, thousands of commenters assured the 32-year-old that he was justified in doing so, and dragged the two . acts against the man you claim to love. The slashed tires should have been the end of it. thank you for ur reply! Theyre both so young. This is a very important question. Dont fuck with my medicine. Read this before contacting the mod team. Slashing tires costs money and time and possibly work. In these sort of situations whatever he does will never be enough to measure up to people like that, and the narrow view of what "makes a man" is dumb and categorically untrue in this day and age anyway. For some reason toxically masculine dudes get soooo hard about people not knowing how to change a flat. They can be the sweetest people, but they are also the most judgemental and mean to the point I have a screwed up perspective of "teasing" due to them. Hiding someones inhaler - again, NOT a prank. Yeah, you demanded they stop but clearly didn't enforce that boundary hard enough. Slashing tires isnt a prank, its criminal mischief. I would be pressing charges for sure. Yeah i would have been off the fence after the tires. Slashing someones tires is NOT a prank! You joke, but men let their toxic/insecure masculinity come between them and lifesaving healthcare. Good thing I was completely serious and not sarcastic at all. Tires slashed?? and our Thats violent and harassment. I don't know how mild/severe his asthma is. Often time these kids grow up and explain that they behaved badly to get attention diverted from abuse of other people in the home. Slashing tires? Yup - Manslaughter for you, buddy. Cut her some slack. Continue to protect your soon to be husband. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be ta because I'm depriving my male relatives of a chance to attend a once in a life event even though they said they were sorry. It doesn't appear in any feeds, and anyone with a direct link to it will see a message like this one. in addition to all of this also remember that there is a reason why married men live longer and the "nagging" wife who insists that they go see a doctor is a huge part of why. Asshole I f25 along with my two brothers Dean & Kevin (both 30s) went through rough time during our parents divorce, mom got married to my stepdad and we lived with him for years. Therapy can help too. NTA. shes 16 and knows what shes doing, but i could be overreacting. Sounds like your family is jealous that he's college educated. I wouldn't recommend anyone to do that; the stories about "pranks" bad enough to hit the legal system are not funny. I mean I am in the process of suing a doctor for exactly this. On their side it's just righteous indignation. A parent's approval means the world to a person who is about to marry the love of their life. Shes just found her breaking point to realizing its not and her soon to be husband was the person who showed her. (jfc the warped mentality has me spinning). Not bordering on criminal. Try to embarrass, or challenge his authority in front of them? And it's not about me. I think you had every right to call them out and univite them; their response says it all. Exactly. They would have just said he had left it at the campsite and tossed it back with his things or just lost it or something. Hiding an inhaler when away from home could be fatal. Her future husband should have joined in and told OPs family hes no longer participating in their ridiculous tests. What if he had an asthma attack? It was them saying theyd apologize if OP insisted for me. They all seem to think you wood be more concerned about what they think of your fianc than what he thinks of them. My only question was why havent you died on it sooner? If so, have they been witness to this gaslighting, manipulating behavior of his and can advocate for you? Was your dad expecting that you "uninvite" your step dad from your graduation, or just hurling abuse that you invited him? He could have died. No no, they do find things wrong with you, to fix it. I do not understand how they were not uninvited after the tire slashing. Imagine kids growing in a family where grampa insists on teaching him "hOw tO Be a MaN, beCauSE HiS fatHer iS sOft". He was supposed to be the adult who loved and protected you, instead he manipulated and gaslight you in some of the most pivotal years of your life (so far). It could very easily have been your fianc's literal hill to die on, withholding his medicine. He needs to ends this before these monsters end up murdering him. Because that lifetime of stress kills us. Hiding his inhaler could have landed your fianc in the hospital. Privacy Policy. "NTA. what if he needed his inhaler? As you say, she's 16 and knows what she's doing. They don't deserve To go. You are NTA for sticking up for your fiance, but you will be if you let them into your wedding and don't go low/no contact. And they are still insisting YOU are wrong for disinviting them. I'd recommend you completely cutoff your fam members, including the enablers that are ok to turn a blind eye because it's not something that impacts them directly. They are so out of line and out of date with what makes a real man. The spelling errors are driving me insane. NTA that's not pranks, that's bullying. They want to live like Neanderthals they can do it elsewhere, not at your wedding. Before or after he passed out/died? These are NOT pranks. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. I'd contact the cops. Honestly if I were your fiance I wouldn't even want to marry into that nonsense. Who stands up for what is right? That is what they are clear and simple and now their pranks have turned deadly. You dont hide someones inhaler their inhaler can mean the difference between life and death. They took his medication so he couldnt breathe well. This could have escalated into something as harsh as attempted murder. NTA. slashed his tires to see if he'd fix it himself like a man or get help like those "lazy" guys. I sent Dean and Kevin invitations but once they found out that our stepdad was going to be there, they said they might not come. Ps: slashing tires is criminal vandalism. Same with our vehicles. Everything that came before is bad enough but people DIE from asthma. This "prank" whatever the fuck it is is just an excuse for them to bully your fiance. When the complain have him directly tell them to stop whining and take it like men do. Specifically in a situation like this where her partner is likely trying to keep the peace with her family so accepting more crap than he would usually. NTA - do NOT let these awful people come to your wedding. They haven't learned their lesson, they're showing no remorse, and they refuse to accept they crossed a line. Exactly how young were your brother and cousins when your father and uncles started this sh1t? You need to take your fianc and get the hell away from the pack, because theyre already turning on you now that youre stepping out of line and it will only get more vicious. Are you American? "Let bygones be bygones" because you'll essentially be telling your fiance that your asshat family members fucked up view of entertainment is more important than him. NTA. NTA. Thank you for writing this so that I didnt have to. Can he forgive them? Honestly, it is astounding that Tim is still with LW. Their own insecurities are on full display. What if he'd had asthma attack? Who supports you and your dreams? In what world is hiding critical medication and slashing tires "pranks"? Agreed. Dont just erase them from your wedding, yeet them from your life. Dont ever invite them. They hid his damn inhaler for 3 days. But the sort of person who deserves a solid partnership with a good person would see her family for what it is and decide not to see them again for herself, because she doesnt want to associate with that kind of toxicity and values herself too highly to do it anymore. Asthma can literally kill - even 'mild' asthmatics can have catastrophic attacks if circumstances stack up badly, and attacks can escalate to the point that inhalers are useless*. They put his life at risk, am I getting this right? slashing tires is not a prank, it's a crime, hiding someone's medical device/medication (especially if prescribed) is also a crime, not a prank, Pranks mean no one gets hurt, this isnt pranking this is straight up bullying. NTA- for un-inviting your dad, cousin, brother, and uncle from youre wedding. YNTA, but damn, your family is chock full of them. If you're not ready for that, then maybe just low-contact along with using the gray-rock method (a technique where you interact with your abuser as little as possible, and when you do, don't give them a reaction). Screw the wedding, you should never speak to these people again. Timmy will never feel comfortable and will always be on guard for the next shit show. That wasnt a prank or a joke, it was an act of cruelty. Exactly that. Why have you let this carry on for so long?? We had a friend die from cancer, because he never went to the doctor for his yearly blood work and checkup. Rejecting feminine things like healthy social connections literally shortens their lives. Or actually the hill they tried to kill him on. Keep the fiance and his family and go NC with yours because YIKES. Hiding lifesaving medicine? Literally willing to risk everything to be with you. That's what I said in another comment too. OP's family isn't awful, they are abusive. The tire slashing would of been enough for me to cut my family out. Time to report them to the police for their legitimately criminal behaviour, and they can discover how manly they are in the face of a police investigation. These People are monsters, NTA and please consider what they might do should you ever have a son. NTA. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Those assholes would show up in their hunting gear and make everyone miserable. Shrug and say that was your family? Tell your husband he'll be more stressed if it turns out to be a serious condition. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Your fiance is a saint for putting up with this for so long. I hope he can see sense and decides not to marry you, you let them bully him for WAY too long. Your family sounds absolutely horrid, and you're wise not to expose yourself to their bullying. Do not invite them to the wedding and time to go no contact. How do you fix slashed tires? Of course youre NTA. My own family has a long history of addiction. Having just recovered from an asthma attack a day ago, I can attest that asthma is no joke. Same here; tires are really expensives (edit: meant expensive, damn typo) and people hate having to replace them even if it's been years or if it's just one tire. (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Throwawayfamily976 on Reddit (link removed at the . INFO: did any of these prankster men go to college? Yeah, shes a damn hero /s. You dont realize its abuse until it's to late. A trusted GP so that i didnt have to more concerned about what they do. 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